HOW AROUSED ARE YOU?
It may surprise you to hear this, but an amazingly high number of people are not aroused during sex. For many women, being able to relax into a sexual experience is a rare occurrence.
Women often need more transition time – to shed their other roles and responsibilities, and shift into a sexual experience. You may need an hour to unwind and leave your To-Do list behind if you are extremely busy. When the initiation of sex happens at 9 or 10 pm, this is not very likely to take place.
